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August 25th, 2011
05:48 pm - Interracial Gay Love Today
What exactly is our community's position on gay interracial couples? Where does the attraction come from? Is the interest of homosexual males toward men coming from disparate cultural background just an act of provocation ?Is it purely a need to break away from the dictates of society?
Our society has come such a long way. Nowadays, a lot of people around the globe have already tolerated two gay guys in a relationship. There are still a lot of people out there who oppose it and call it an abomination. But what matters is there is acceptance.Many people have longed for a difference for a long time. Change arrived. And change is going to come still.
Nowadays, we are allowed to love. Who is to say a man cannot love another man but any man can love any woman he pleases?And who is to tell that guys who are from two different cultures cannot love one another while straight males and females can? Gay marriage is becoming legal to more places. Like gender, race does not matter much. A gay male is free to break away from the usual and follow the love of his life even if he is from another culture. He can be out and proud and hunt the globe to look for the one he loves, even if he lives a hundred miles across the oceans; on the other end of the planet. Gone are the days when it was up to society who we are supposed to like and fall in love with. Nowadays, we have the right to be in control of our heart. And if that freedom is violated, we can always fight for it. Interracial relationships between gay men may always cause commotion but they are left to do just that. We can all hope that someday all of us will reside in a world with no misgiving, regret, embarrassment and animosity.
What is the root of the attraction? The answer is, the attraction should not even be questioned. The attraction among two different races should not be considered as out-of-this-world. It is but natural to be fascinated with our opposites and race should not even matter. Despite the fact that there is dissimilarity between races, the race of the one we like should not be an issue. We are either into a person or we are not. Race is beside the point to people in love.
The attraction of gay men toward men who do not share the same color of their skin is definitely not an act of defiance. It is more than longing to be break away from the constricting grips of society. Love is universal. It is far greater than the acknowledgment we give it. Let us let love to lead the way for the heart sees what the eyes cannot. Our horizons should be limitless.Regardless of one's race and sexuality, people like people.
Let us all welcome our diversity and honor our differences and let us live as a whole . We are all children of the Earth. We are all of this world. We breathe the same air. We enjoy the same sun. Although we do not all share the same color of the skin, we have the same human heart beating inside our chest.
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August 15th, 2011
11:59 pm - Being Gay, Greek and Horny
I am not quite sure of my heritage. Well, my mom used to tell me that she was part Greek. My dad's an American, that I am sure of. But my mom, she has always been mysterious. What's ironic is that, she used to tell me all these fantastical tales about Greece when I was a kid. But when it comes to the things I should know as a person, like my roots, she's very secretive. I can't help feeling that my mom did something outrageous wherever she came from and she chose to put things behind her, even if it means keeping important things such as heritage from her son. You see, I don't know much about our relatives. And if I were Greek, aren't Greeks known for their big families? Like that movie, My Big Fat Greek Wedding? But my mom insists we were descendants of the gods. But you know how crazy mothers can become, right?
Often, I look at myself in the mirror. And I say to myself, "Well, I look Greek enough." But sometimes, I can't help but think I look Latino. I get that a lot from people.
So not sure whether I'm Greek or Latino, I turned out gay, too. Growing up gay wasn't easy. But I've learned to come to terms with the world and its prejudices. I have embraced who I am. At least, the being gay part.
Being young and stuff, I admit my hormones are in control. You can say, I'm a horndog like most guys my age. And sometimes, I am ashamed of that fact. But sometimes, I don't give an eff. So, I'm horny. So what? Being horny is not a crime, is it? I like watching porn. I think porn is amazing. It's not like I'm an addict. But I am so thankful that porn exists! Porn rocks! Especially gay porn. Well, I watch straight porn, too. But gay porn is definitely my kind of porn. Well, I'm gay. Duh.
So there. I guess if my momma tells me I'm Greek. Then, I am Greek. A horny, gay, Greek. And you can't do nothing 'bout it, cause my momma told me I was born this way. But her name's not Gaga. : )
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